Mentor Inner Views Part 3

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This is the third in the series of inner-views on Mentoring. This time here are the clips of a rare inner-view with my daughter Aida who met Toks, Camille and Kwadjo when she was 6 years old. They have gone onto to be great mentors, God parents and supportive friends and guides to her in her formative years. Here’s some reflection from Aida in what that journey has been like.

1. What is your first memory of meeting Kwadjo, Toks and Camille?

A vague memory of me meeting them would be at the BBC studios. Other more prominent memories are at gatherings. And it was always the 3 of them together!

2. How would you describe your relationship with all three over the last 18 years?

Real. I think of them like my big cousins. I can go to each of them for advice, receive good feedback and by the end of it laugh!

3. What has stood out most about your time together?

As I have grown up I have developed a strong bond with them. I don’t have to see them every week or speak to them every month! When we do spend time together we all reconnect naturally!!!

4. How would you describe your relationship with each of the above?

Toks- Big cousin. Good strategist. Gives me guidance on my chosen paths.

Kwadjo- Creative inspiration. Following him filming documentaries and such a go getter!

Camille- The real talker. Have such a laugh when we are together.

5. What difference has their mentoring made to your life?

It has given me a support network that I believe will be there for life. I think it’s invaluable to have such people in your life no matter what age you are for times of need and guidance.

6. What would you advice young people to look for in a mentor?

Somebody who is willing to listen with open ears. A person who is worldly and supportive. A mentor who can always see the silver lining even in bad times. You also need a mentor who you actually can get along with. It’s also important to relate to each other.

7. What do you believe to be the most important qualities of a great mentor?

Empathy, honesty, humor and kindness.

8. If you had a chance to do anything differently from your life over again what would it be?

Nothing. I wouldn’t be where I am today. Oh wait. Learn Gymnastics!